For the date itself

Between Us

Less interviewing. More actually dating.

Try something together. Be a little playful. See what happens when neither of you is trying quite so hard to have the “right” conversation.

If something gets you talking, ignore me. That's the point.

Choose today's mood

What sounds good right now?

There's no right level for a particular date. Pick what would make today more enjoyable.

Try this

Read it together, then put the phone down.

Exactly.

You don't need me right now.

Put the phone down. Come back if you want another nudge.

Before you go

What did you get to see today that you might not have seen from just asking questions?

You don't have to type anything. You can talk about it - or just keep it to yourself.