The date is over. Before you decide what you think,
take a few minutes to look at what actually happened.
What felt good? What gave you pause? What are you still curious about?
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Start with the date
In your own words, how was it?
What happened? What stood out? What did you enjoy? What didn't you enjoy?
Look at the experience
What stood out?
A date can have good parts and difficult parts at the same time.
How did the date feel?Choose anything that fits.
A few quick checks3/5 is a perfectly valid answer.
Separate what happened from what you still need to know
What are you still trying to understand?
What would you still like to know or understand about this person?Optional
Choose only the areas you genuinely want to understand better before deciding what comes next.
What specifically is affecting the attraction?Choose anything that fits. Getting specific can help you tell the difference between a clear no and something you simply need more information about.
Is there something you're trying to interpret?Optional
Separate what actually happened from what you're taking it to mean.
Make the decision you're making today
Would you like to see this person again?
This is not a verdict on them. It is simply what you want to do next.
Your check-in
Your Date Debrief
A clearer look at what this date may be telling you, what is still unknown, and what is worth paying attention to next.
